Flirter’s Block : Thinking That “Flirting Is Bad…”
I’m going to start off this report by telling you that flirting isn’t bad or manipulative as some people believe.
There are many people who believe that flirting is immoral or “wrong”.
I’ve received countless emails – many of them flame mails – about how I should stop teaching guys
how to flirt with women so that the guys can “be themselves”.
These flamers have no idea what flirting is really about.
To me, flirting is just being playful and having fun. It isn’t about “seducing” anyone. It isn’t about playing mind
games. It’s not even about picking women up. It’s about making other people feel good.
Just because I flirt a little doesn’t mean I am sleazy or manipulative. In fact, people (hopefully including you if
we have had email correspondents in the past) often agree that I’m one of the warmest and most sincere
guys they’ve ever met. Yet, I flirt with anything that crosses my path, be it women, animals, or even little old
ladies waiting for the bus!
If you have any “moral issues” with flirting, then just keep in mind that flirting is a way of giving, not a way of
taking. You’ll understand what I mean once you’ve finished reading this report.
Here's what a Christian reader of mine has suggested to me in the past. (Not exact quote...I am paraphrasing him...)
"See flirting as a way of giving attention to people. Think of it as a way to share your warmth. See it as a way to make other people feel good about themselves, not as a way to get anything in return."
So go ahead and flirt all you want!
In my next article i'm going to show you guys some of the flirting techniques i use ;)
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