Hi. You know, guys are always looking for some secret


guaranteed-to-work-scripted-chat-up-lines that can seduce


every single woman on this planet.

 Yes, it would be cool


if there were "seven magic words" (or any of that junk)


that you could use to instantly attract women, but here's


the truth: there aren't.
 
 CHEESY PICK-UP LINES DO NOT WORK! Use them, and you


will end up like most guys : Lonely and sexually frustrated!
 
 I can tell you some important things about pick up


lines though. First of all, it's not just what you say, but


also HOW you say it that is important. Most guys try to


memorize or think of dozens of "cool" pick up lines to use


on women, only to stutter or sound like horny perverts when


they actually say them.
 
 For a start, you want to speak slowly and clearly


when you use a line on a girl. You should also look for


SIGNALS that you can approach her before you do. The eye


contact test I mention all the time is very important in


this case. You want to let her know you're interested BEFORE


you surprise her with a pickup attempt. Most guys just


suddenly appear out of nowhere and throw out some cheesy


pickup line that the girl has probably heard a dozen times


already. Of course these suckers are going to get rejected!


So please...use the "silent pickup line" (eye contact)


I teach all the time before you try a verbal one.
 
 You should also have GOOD POSTURE when you approach


a woman. (Actually, you should ALWAYS have a good, confident,


and grounded posture if you wanna become good around the


ladies.)
 
 As for the line itself, STAY AWAY from any cheesy


pickup lines out there. They are only going to get your face


slapped.
 
 Personally, my pickup lines tend to be:
 
 
1) Compliments


2) Small Talk


3) Questions
 
 
 Every woman and situation is different, so whatever


I say is usually "made up" on the spot with lighting speed.


(And trust me, the more woman you approach, the easier this


will be.)
 
 
 For example, if I see a girl with a cool earring or


whatever, I may walk up and say "Hi. I really like your


<blah blah blah> It looks quite pretty. Where did you get


that?" Then when they answer, I reach out my hand and say,


"Cool. Well, My name is <     >. What's yours?"
 
 Or I may make some small talk about the environment.


Like about the weather, etc.
 
 Now...an interesting fact...the most important thing


about a pick up is actually NOT the line itself, but


what happens AFTER. How many times have you approached a


woman, said a pick up line, but then paralyzed in horror as


there was a dead silence?
 
 Most guys think pick up lines are for "picking up


women for sex", etc. They think a player can just say some


"secret" pick up line that arouse a woman instantly and then


go home with them. That's NOT true. The REAL purpose of the


pickup line is to LEAD to the next level - the small talk/conversation.

The only way you can get a woman to come home


with you is if you TALK with her first, and the whole point


of the pickup line is to OPEN UP CONVERSATION.
 
 So make sure you MOVE FORWARD right after you use a


pick up line and try to carry on the conversation. (Which is


a whole different skill in itself.) You want to ask open-ended


questions and get her to keep talking, etc.

Important Truths About Pick Up Lines

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