A lot of guys like to email me and say, "
I feel like I do not have enough control over my love life. 
How can I have more control?"
 
 To me, the answer is simple...
 
 You've to start being responsible for your own
actions.
 
 Here's the magical formula of life: Control = 
Responsibility.
 
 The 2 are inseparable. If you want more power, 
then you gotta be more responsible. It's as simple as that.
 
 At school, if you want to join the student council,
you've got to volunteer to do stuff and be active in 
everything.
 
 At work, if you want to get a promotion, then you
have to show your boss you're capable of doing more.
 
 In business, the more money you want to make, the
harder and smarter you have to work.
 
 In politics, the more power you have, the more
responsibilites you'll have for your country.
 
 Dating is no different. If you want to demand
more, then you must first GIVE more. You must first
understand that YOU alone is what makes you ATTRACTIVE
or UNATTRACTIVE.
 
 Every action you make will either make a girl
like you more or like you less. It's not your luck,
it's not the environment, it's not "the other guy", 
it's YOU.
 
 Nobody but YOU.
 
 Listen. If you want to have more control over
your love live, then you better start accepting 
responsibility for your own problems NOW.
 
 For example...
 
 1) If your girlfriend has left you for another
guy, don't blame the other guy for stealing her. It's
YOUR own fault for losing her. If she was REALLY
attracted to you, NOBODY could have stolen her away
from you.
 
 2) If women always keep saying you are a 
"friend", don't whine about it. It's YOUR own fault
for not developing any chemistry with women.
 
 3) If you never go out and meet women, then
don't complain about not having a girlfriend. It's
your own fault for not expanding your social circle.
 
 4) If you can't hold a conversation, don't
whine about your shyness. PRACTICE your conversation
skills. 
 
 5) If you don't know how to attract women,
then LEARN. 
  

How To Have More Control Over Your Love Life

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