A lot of guys ask me about how to
Now...call me over sensitive to language,
but...
but...
...first of all... There IS no ice between
and her that you have to break through.
At least not any REAL ice. If it's there
you are creating it...
...IN YOUR HEAD!
My point being: When you use the kind
At least not any REAL ice. If it's there
you are creating it...
...IN YOUR HEAD!
My point being: When you use the kind
of tired words and phrases everyone uses,
you get the tired non existent results
everyone else gets... NO RESULTS!
you get the tired non existent results
everyone else gets... NO RESULTS!
Secondly... what is a "stranger"? Depends
on how you define people you haven't
spoken to yet.
The average person would say a stranger
is a person they can't trust yet, someone who's
on how you define people you haven't
spoken to yet.
The average person would say a stranger
is a person they can't trust yet, someone who's
not someone they know.
But when you think about it there's an awful
lot of stuff you already know about a new
person you haven't spoken to yet.
They're probably enjoying eating, drinking,
movies, travelling, holidays, some TV...
The occasional drink...read any woman's
dating profile and certain things always
pop up!
lot of stuff you already know about a new
person you haven't spoken to yet.
They're probably enjoying eating, drinking,
movies, travelling, holidays, some TV...
The occasional drink...read any woman's
dating profile and certain things always
pop up!
So what is the lesson here?
Don't "try to break the ice with a stranger..."
because you're creating ICE and DISTANCE
where it doesn't NEED to be created...
instead...
...have a chat with that cute girl you're
intrigued by.
Engage that cool chick who's smiling
because you're creating ICE and DISTANCE
where it doesn't NEED to be created...
instead...
...have a chat with that cute girl you're
intrigued by.
Engage that cool chick who's smiling
at you in a little bit of playful banter to
entertain yourself...
...have fun with that interesting girl
...have fun with that interesting girl
you haven't slept with yet...
Call it whatever you want...but make
sure you use words that make you
FEEL GOOD and EXCITED to do
it.
Some people will say: Come on,
Some people will say: Come on,
they're just words. It doesn't matter.
They're wrong.
the words you use create your
experience of the world.
Heavy stuff. But true.
They're wrong.
the words you use create your
experience of the world.
Heavy stuff. But true.
Mindset counts for A LOT when it
comes to meeting women and getting
their numbers.
comes to meeting women and getting
their numbers.
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