Here's a list of what NOT to do if your girlfriend is

breaking up with you. 
 
 
 1) Do NOT fight with her. Fighting ALWAYS creates
tension and kills attraction. Fighting with a woman is useless.
Even if you win the argument, you will still lose the war.
 
 2) Do NOT try to use logic to show her why she should
come back to you. Love is based on FEELINGS, not logic. No
matter how brilliant your logic is, she's still going to leave
you.
 
 3) Do NOT reassure your ex that you have "changed" so 
things will be "different from now on". It's like trying to
bail water out of a sinking boat. It won't work. The hole is
still there and your words are not going to mend it.
 
 4) Do NOT keep telling her you love her. She won't 
care. All a woman cares about is how much SHE loves YOU...not
the other way around!)
 
 5) Do NOT beg her to come back. The more you beg, the
more she will ignore you.
 
 6) Do NOT try to make her feel guilty about leaving you.
(Examples: "I can't work without you." and "Don't break up 
with me during exam period...") It won't work. It will only 
make her DREAD being with you even more.
 
 7) Do not act depressed so they will feel bad for you.
Sympathy does NOT equal ATTRACTION!
 
 8) Do NOT talk to her friends to win their support. All
she cares is how SHE fees about you. Even if her friends love you, 
they can't make her love you forever. External pressure never
lasts longer. If your girl decides to stay with you, her motivation 
has to come from WITHIN.
 
 9) Do NOT spend money on gifts and flowers for her. You
can't buy her heart back with money.
 
 10) Do NOT push her into getting back with you. The more
you push, the more she will PULL AWAY. 
 
 These are the most common mistakes guys make during a 
breakup. Trust me, you don't want to do ANY of these things. 
If you do, I can guarantee you your relationship will be doomed. 
You probably won't even get a chance to kiss your girlfriend 
goodbye, let alone get her back. I deal with dozens of breakup 
cases every week, so I KNOW what I am talking about!
 

10 DEADLY Mistakes Guys Make During And After A Breakup

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